Where to shop for bdsm gear: The best of the best
People are always asking me, “Where did you get that!?” and I am always referring people out to different shops that I am utterly loyal to, but I figured since it was Christmas time and people might be looking for gifts I would make a blog post on some of my favorite places to shop for BDSM gear. Mind you, these are artisans who are amazing and talented at what they do, they are NOT cheaply made garbage and stores on Amazon. So these gifts are for the more experienced players, though I may throw on one of the cheapy fun sites, mostly all will be excellent crafters. I am going to put on my favorite latex stores as well seeing as everyone always asks me where I get my amazing latex. Here you will find an array of stores to suite your bdsm needs.
Tiny Terror Toys: Resin Lollipops, Floggers, Leather and Fun Stuff
Link: https://www.etsy.com/shop/TinyTerrorToys
Tiny Terror Toys is known much for their high quality and custom resin Lollipops and Pain Sticks. I am telling you, you won’t find better out there. I have been ordering from her for years and she is amazing, a one woman show with her products. Mix in great customer service and exceptional quality and you get one hell of an impact play toy designed to your specifications. She makes one called the “Blood Play Lolli” that when hit against the buttocks of the sub immediately draws specks of blood, it is the most fun thing I own! Trust me you don’t want to miss out on owning on of these bad boys (or 20 like me) I own an “X” and an “O” so I can play Tic-Tac-Toe on a subs bottom. (She came up with the idea.) The options are fun and never ending. You must check her out.
Blissful Discipline: Everything Rubber and More
Link: https://www.etsy.com/shop/BlissfulDiscipline
One of the reasons I LOVE Blissful so much is that he not only makes quality stuff, sends freebies often and backs up all of his products with exceptional customer service, but all the rubbery goodness he makes is SO easy to clean, like literally one wipe with a cloth and cleaner and you’re done. He has also taken every day items and turned them into amazing kinky play things. Like a sprinkler system, door knobs, everything you can think of, this man can make kinky, but it’s also QUALITY. I have so much stuff by him it’s insane. He also makes sensation play items which are fantastically fluffy and soft. Rope floggers, metal floggers, you name it, he’s got it. And there is NO ONE nicer than him, if you have an issue with an order he will bend over backwards to help you out because he is just that nice.
BatHouse Whips: Paracord Whips and Floggers
Link: https://www.etsy.com/shop/BatHouseWhips
Bathouse whips can custom make any style and size whip for you out of paracord and their whips are very very very well made! I have two of them, they even feature this little baby bullwhip that’s as cute as a button and stingy as a bitch. They also make beautiful floggers that look like they came out of a machine! If you’re in the market for anything paracord, check them out!
Kandles by Kitten: BDSM Safe Candles
Link: https://www.etsy.com/shop/KandlesbyKitten
Not only are they so sweet to work with, but their candles are _A-MAZING. I haven’t come across better ones yet. They’re in the UK so it does take some time for the candles to arrive, but they are 100% worth it. They also have some cute little kits you can by too, but their selection of colors is off the charts (cause we all know colors matter) You cannot go wrong with these folks.
Agreeable Agony: Floggers, OG Toys, Rope, Candles
Link:https://www.etsy.com/shop/AgreeableAgony
This is one of my absolute FAVORITE places to shop. I have so much by them it’s not even funny. They definitely make up a good portion of my floggers, which many of you know, I have like one of each kind. LOL But seriously, if you want HIGH quality, this is the place to go. They’re also Massachusetts based so you’re supporting a local business. They come with a fairly high price tag, but they’re worth every freakin penny and their toys are to die for and they LAST, you won’t find any of their shit falling apart on you. They have an array of options too, deer hide, elk hide and more! Definitely check them out!
BADesign: Floggers, Paddles, Canes and More
Link: https://www.etsy.com/shop/BADesignStore
BADesign makes some of the most gorgeous wood I have ever seen! I own several of their items and not only is the quality fantastic, but it’s BEAUTIFUL. Most of their paddles are double sided and their floggers are perfect for florentining, with buttery soft leather of all kinds of colors to choose from. They also sell canes with gorgeous wooden handles and wooden knives to die for. This store is an absolute favorite of mine, also Massachusetts based!
Kitalyst: Chlorinated Latex Garments
Link: https://www.etsy.com/shop/Kitalyst
I can’t even begin to tell you how much latex I own from them. Their latex is just THE best. No messy lubes or talcum powder with this latex, just a quick scrub down and hang to dry and you’re good to go. They make EVERYTHING you could ever want too, even cosplayer costumes. So if you’re into latex, they’re more than worth checking out. They usually have a pretty long waitlist so it’s good to order early when you know what you want, but it’s worth the wait. This latex is stunning and high quality, you will not find better on the net.
Latexion: Latex Garments
Link: https://www.etsy.com/shop/Latexion
Now, I’ve worked with a lot of latex makers and Latexion is by far the nicest! The owner is the sweetest thing in the world and can make you just about anything you can dream up! She has made custom latex pieces for me several times and they always come out gorgeous! Her regular style in the shop is a mix of punk/gothic and extremely sexy and classy. She has a wide array of items and something for everyone. If you love Latex, you cannot miss a trip to Latexion.
So that is my list of some of the best of the best this holiday season. I hope you enjoyed my list and hope you enjoy checking out some of the shops I recommended. Remember, all of these are small businesses so when you shop with them you are supporting small shops and local shops!
Have a Merry Christmas everyone and stay safe and sane through the holidays!
XOXO
Mistress Scarlett
