B is for Bondage

Bondage, for those maybe 2 of you who don’t know what it is, it is the tying up or restraining of a person (usually a slave) using one thing or another. This article is going to be all about the different ways in which you can incorporate bondage into your play.

Bedroom Restraints – These handy little buggers go under your mattress and are usually made of something stretchy, though I’m sure you can get custom leather ones made should you want them. These are great for sex play, and usually what Vanilla Couples think of when they think of Bondage.

Handcuffs – Yet another handy way to restrain your slave, but another thing Vanilla Couples seem to think of as heavy bondage. But come on, they’re a classic!

Rope – (As seen Above) You can do an infinite number of things with rope, from a basic tie to some hardcore crazy Shibari. Though you do need the space and the right equipment to do it all.

Bondage and/or Duct Tape – This is always fun and you can do parts of the body or a full on mummification if you want and your sub ain’t going NOWHERE. It’s also fun to leave the private areas exposed and have a little fun torturing them. (the breasts, vagina, penis, nipples), it makes for an extra fun experience for both you and the submissive.

Spreader Bars – These you can get in a billion different lengths and for the hands, feet or for the hands and feet (four holes). It’s fun to torture your sub and make them try and keep the spreader bar off the ground and their legs spread as far as they possibly can, just a fun little trick. Also fun to get the four holed ones and have them totally bent over, giving you access to their rear ends and balls. Add a humbler to make it extra fun.

Thigh Cuffs and Hand Restraints – These are not just bondage, but they look classy and are super beautiful on women. You have the hands restrained to the thighs so they cannot move their hands to cover themselves at all. Nice.

Armbinders – These are not only fun, but they look cool and keep your sub totally restrained in the top half of their body, though it also makes walking difficult as well.

Bondage Harnesses – These are great because they have rings all over them so you can hook them up to whatever you want, wherever you want! They also look sexy as hell.

Straight Jackets – Ahhhhh such a classic and so much fun, usually completely restraining the arms and even wrapping underneath the genitals with hooks and bindings on them you can hook them to a swing or any type of bondage hooks for a lot of fun times.

Ball gags /Cock gags – Sick of all the screaming and moaning. gag it up!

Muzzle gags – Makes for a wonderful sensory deprivation experience so they cannot see what you’re doing to them either. Hahahaha.

Open Mouth gags – Allows for tongue and mouth torture, lot’s of drooling, and also insertables. These are a must have.

Bondage Scenarios

Doctor/Patient

Nurse/Patient

Teacher/Student

Cop/Criminal

Detective/Suspect

Babysitter/Child

Step Father/Mother / Step Son/Daughter

Boss / Worker

Lawyer / Secretary

Any number of positions versus their superiors works well and adds a fun twist. Just make sure before you start role playing you discuss safe words, what can and cannot happen during the scene, what you want to happen during the scene and maybe a few surprises you might want to happen during the scene. It’s important to have good communication before and after a role play.

There is also predicament bondage and I will give you some ideas on what to do and things that I have done when doing PB. It can be a lot of fun and allow you to get creative. The basic premise is, would you rather scenario A or B.

Once I ties a pair of piercing scissors open above a mans cock and had his legs spread open, if he closed his legs the piercing scissors would close over his cock. Then to make things extra fun and hard, myself and another Domme tickled him like crazy while he tried so hard to keep his legs open so the scissors did not close around his cock. It was good fun.

Another thing you can do is tie a string to a mans balls and tie the other end to a door knob and have the door closed. You make them roll something across the floor and tell them you want them to end right at your feet, but sit right out of reach so they have to tug their balls pretty hard in order to reach you and get whatever it is they are rolling (a marble, a penny, something) to you in order to actually get it to you. You punish them if they fail.

So it’s things like this that make PD so much fun. You can add in electricity so they get shocked when they do something, you can take away their air flow so they either get shocked or are allowed to breathe.

You can make them stand against a wall using only their nose to hold a penny against it and roll the penny, every time the penny is dropped, shock them with a cattle prod. Or hit them with your worst paddle until they reach 100 hits with the paddle.

It’s really up to you and anything your mind can come up with!

I hope you liked my little blog on Bondage today, as it is one of my favorite things to do. Leave me a comment and let me know what you enjoy when it comes to bondage or any PB ideas you might want to share!

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Scarlett

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