Your Mistress

Welcome Darlings, I am Mistress Scarlett, former owner of Central Mass BDSM, my beloved company which I sadly closed down about 12 years ago to live a bit of a Vanilla lifestyle. I am now about 5 years out of retirement as Scarlett’s Attic, this time with a new Dungeon in the Attic of my home. I am happy to announce that renovations are now finished and I am officially running sessions out of the Attic! (Yay!!!)

My experience as a Pro-Domme goes back about fourteen years, in my personal life, a lot longer. I have always been a purely dominant female and natural sadist, but also a very loving and understanding Goddess. I adore being worshipped by both men and women and nothing pleases me more than a bit of spoiling and attention, though the root of why I do what I do, aside from my sadistic tendencies and my love for BDSM is my need to help, guide and somehow find a way to point people in the right direction in their lives. I have always felt as though I’ve had a gift for being able to read people and know what they need, to be able to feel what they’re going through. That despite the misconception of those that believe sadists are “monsters” without feelings, I find myself being quite the opposite and an extremely empathetic creature, so much so that I soak up the emotions of others around me like a sponge. You could smile at me all day long, but if there is sadness inside of you, I will still see it.

With that being said, one of the things that has always fascinated me about BDSM in general is the psychology behind it all. Why do people have certain fetishes? What age groups, genders, people with a certain history, certain mental health issues, etc, seem to like “this” and not “that”, while other like “this” and not “that”. Then of course, there is the history of sex and psychology and how it has gone through its evolution over time and why FemDom really has grown so popular in recent years to the point where girls are “Cyber Domming” now and books like 50 Shades of Gray *cough* (trash!) are on Best Seller List after Best Seller List!

Everything in regards to the psychological side of BDSM fascinates me and I love it just as much as the physical aspect of things.

Now, for the past several years I have worked closely alongside of one of the top Psychologists in Massachusetts where he has not only treated me for various things, such as OCD and ADHD, but he has explained, in depth about treatments on those things and more when I have asked because he knows my fascination with the topics, so now I have started to bring together both working on combining things like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Trauma Therapy into things like BDSM play, by discussing them before and after play. Now, I do not claim to be a psychiatrist, not at all, but I do know that I have helped many people and I plan on helping many more with their life issues, both past and present and hopefully future.

My approach to being a Pro-Domme may not be for everyone, it may be different and it may not be loved by everyone either, but when you have tried traditional therapy time and time again and it simply does not work or will not work by itself, there are other alternatives. Is this a substitution? No. Can it help? I believe it can. And going into it with a positive mindset can certainly help, a lot.

I am not only here for life coaching and therapy or treatment either, I am always up for just plain old fun and play as well, no emotional strings attached either. I started that way and that is what most Dommes do, of course, so regardless of what you are looking for and if you are new to the scene or an experienced veteran, if you are looking for some fun, exciting play or perhaps a different approach to BDSM, you quite possibly may have found your Goddess…

For…

Nothing pleases me more than having a man (or even a woman) kneeling down at my feet, sweat dripping from their neck as they eagerly bend their face down to kiss my boots and I can see the marks on their back that I gave them, still fresh and raw, beautiful and agonizing and I shiver with pleasure as they say the words, “Thank you Mistress” to me for giving them what no one else can, or what someone else may consider a horrible taboo, a sin, something disgusting, strange, weird.

This is something I find beautiful.

If you wish to serve me and give meaning to your life and no longer have to be ashamed, and hide in the darkness, I can help you release those feelings you keep inside.