Sessions Gallery & FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions

What will my session be like?

Because each person is so unique, it makes each session so unique, therefore, there is no direct answer to this question, but I can tell you that I do tailor every session to meet the direct needs of the individual, thus the reason I have the “Session Request Form” with the questions on it asking what your Interests, Curiosities and Hard Limits are. These, along with the extra time we spend together help me to determine what we do during you session.

Every client who books with me also gets a free hour prior to their session to meet with me, get to know me a bit, ask questions and plan out their session, as well as free Aftercare post session for as long as you need. I always do Aftercare and take it very seriously. Neither of these come out of your session time.

What kind of Gear – Furniture – Toys do you have at Scarlett’s Attic?

Simple Answer – A lot (lol)

Long answer –
~ A St. Andrew’s Cross
~ A Large Spanking Horse (custom built per my specifications)
~ A small spanking bench
~ A spiked Pillory
~ A massage table
~ Violet Wand (second most powerful one on the market)
~ Full sounding Kit
~ Full Fire Play Kit
Impact Toys: Riding crops, single tail whips both leather and nylon, a variety of paddles in different types of wood, rubber, metal, leather, etc. Canes in rattan, acrylic, lexan, delrin, bamboo, various types of wood, etc. Evil Sticks in various shapes, sizes and colors. Floggers of all kinds, including leather, rubber, paracord, etc. Cat O’ Nine Tails, various quirts, braided whips, short whips, long whips, dragon tails in rubber and leather of various lengths, straps, tawse, martinets and so much more I just cannot type it all out, I will be here forever.

Other toys: various nipple clamps – CBT toys – BDSM blades – Wartenberg Wheels – Rope – Cuffs (feet and hands) – Blindfolds – Straight Jacket – ABDL necessities – Candles for Wax Play – Magic Wand – Shock Collar – TENS Unit – Mummification Supplies – Tons of Pervertables – Clothespins – etc

Is the session completely planned or done on spur of the moment?

A little bit of both actually. I always have some bits and pieces planned out or an idea of what we are going to do, but I go with the flow of the mood and how my client is doing and feeling. I don’t stop you immediately after 10 minutes and say, “Welp, that was 10 minutes of flogging, time to tie you up for 20 minutes and then onto exactly 20 minutes of sounding.”

We always go by how you’re feeling, what you’re in the mood for, what I’m in the mood for, what you may want to try and you’re curious about, and then say you like something, well, you may feel like spending the whole session doing it! Who knows! It’s all about testing the waters out and seeing how things go!

Do you work with beginners?

I work with everyone, regardless if this is your first time or if you’re a veteran in the scene.

What are your favorite kinks/things to do during a session?

Bondage – Caning – Spanking – Whipping – Electro Stim – Sissy Training – Foot Worship – Urethral Sounding – Flogging – CBT – Pretty much any impact play

Is your Playspace done yet? When will it be done?

YES! As of the end of February the Attic is complete and ready for play! It is now a fully stocked BDSM Dungeon.

How old do you have to be to have a session?

21+ Babes

I want to be your personal Slave Mistress! Do you do sessions for free?

Do you work for free? I understand wanting to be a slave, but I am not looking for anymore personal slaves as I have my own beloved collared Pets already. If you are looking to make a personal connection with someone, I wish you all the luck and would recommend going on FetLife and trying to find a play partner, please do not look for and ask for a Pro-Domme to do this for you. The answer will always be “no”

Will you go on a date with me?

No. I have been married for over 8 years, with my husband for 10 and we’ve known one another for 15 years so don’t even try.

Can I take you out for dinner or lunch to discuss a session?

Sure, I have dinner dates for a Tribute of $250. Please fill out my “Session Request Form” and select “Dinner Date”

I want to be your next collared slave! How can I become devoted to you?

I get asked this a lot and here is the honest truth. I don’t just randomly collar whatever submissive comes along and happens to serve me well. We have to have a deep connection. It must not only involve serving me well, but a great friendship, an instant connection to one another, a mutual feeling that we will both benefit from this relationship, and just knowing that this is right.
It starts out as a sub “In Training” for a long, long time sometimes before he/she is ever collared. That collar is basically a wedding band in a (to me) non-sexual relationship, but the relationship itself is very important and means very much to me. It’s not as simple as putting a collar on and taking it off when you decide you do not want it anymore. It’s a symbol of devotion to someone for ‘hopefully’ the rest of your life.
People tend to jump at it and treat it as something to show off in clubs and to other submissives as a badge of honor and that’s O-KAY, but it has to be EARNED and it has to MEAN something truly and deeply. It is not just a fashion statement or a piece of jewelry to be obtained to show off, it has a much deeper meaning.

So. DO NOT ASK me for a COLLAR after sessioning with me ONCE – twice – three times – four times…or even worse, message me on Fet and ask me to be collared. I will literally laugh at you.

I have one submissive in training for his collar at the moment and am not looking for anyone else right now, my focus is solely on him.

Is there any sex involved during the session?

This is an absolute NO. NO NO NO NO NO. I am not a prostitute. There is no traditional, oral or any kind of sex going on, you will not even see me naked. Don’t even ask.

How are you handling and responding to Covid-19? What precautions are you taking?

I, like my other Domme sisters, take this extremely seriously, especially after having almost lost my best friend to this horrible virus. After each and every session my entire space is cleaned, along with any and all toys and gear that were used during the session. They are sterilized with medical grade cleaner, bleach, rubbing alcohol or thrown into the laundry and washed and dried on hot when appropriate!

Bot your safety and mine means everything to me. I would never put either one of us at risk. If you have any questions or concerns about how I am continuing to handle the situation with Covid-19 or would like me to direct you to more information – Please do not hesitate to ask me!

Here is a link to the CDC Website for More Info: https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/index.html

How much is it to book a session?

Just to book your date it is a Tribute of $50 per session hour, so if you book one hour you will have to put down $50 to book, 2 hours will be $100 to book, this is at the time of booking. The balance is due 4 days prior to your session date.

The session total will be told to you via email as some sessions are different and more complex and cost more than others, though there is a basic rate, which also will be told to you via email.

Do you do refunds?

No, I do not do refunds as stated in my policy, but your money is good with me forever so if you need to reschedule or a problem arises I will do my best to show you the best customer service I am able to. Including giving extra time, giving free rescheduling fees and even some extra special fun stuff!

Pegging?

Don’t ask for it on a first session. I have to get to know you and trust you before I even go there.

Can I bring my own clothing and makeup for Sissy Time?

Yes, I actually encourage it, seeing as I have a limited amount of what I do have available and it does not fit all body types. I have makeup as well, but you may prefer something specific. So please, yes, bring your own, but know that I do have some at my disposal.

Is filming and Photography Allowed?

Yes, filming and photography is allowed and you may cover your face if you’d like. I can send you a copy of the photos and videos free of charge/put them on FetLife/Etc. What you may NOT do is sell them online or make a profit off of them in any way shape or form.

If you’d like the entire session photographed or filmed, there will be an extra fee.

Do you work with Couples / Threesomes?

I do and I love working with couples. The price is per person when it’s a couple or more people. I will train one person on how to dominate the other, I will tag team with the other or I can be more of a guide and bystander, it’s totally up to you, it’s your session. I’ve had some people even say I’ve saved their marriage! Go me!

Do you work with woman / transgender?

Of course, I love working with women and my ladies have been some of my best clients, I also love working with Transgender males and females. No one gets left out. If there is something you are not comfortable with all you need to do is let me know during the pre-session interview and that takes care of that.

What are your hourly rates?

$275 per hour plus a 3% Fee for payment app used, Dommes in training will likely have a smaller hourly rate because they are still training.

Can I book a double session with you and a Domme in Training?

Yes you can, if I happen to be training anyone at the moment.